Mandy Jane Lynch
Your Therapy Godmother - Counsellor / Coach / Hypnotherapist
My Own Survival / Safety Plan
It can help to make your own plan for what to do when things feel really bad or overwhelming. Try to find a time when you are feeling calm to make your plan. You could ask a friend or a health professional, like myself, to help you to write it. Write your answers to each question. Be really honest with yourself about what you need and what works for you. There are some examples below to help you think of different ideas that you can ask yourself in creating a safety plan for yourself:
For example: people, pets, hobbies, special interests, hopes and beliefs.
For example: thoughts, behaviours or situations - isolating myself, arguing with a loved one, feelings of hopelessness, sleeping excessively or being unable to sleep.
For example: distraction or relaxation - exercise, watching TV / You Tube, breathing exercises.
For example: friend (name and phone number), library, coffee shop, park - be specific about what and where.
For example: if I was to say how I feel, who would I want to help me - mum / partner / friend - be specific and add numbers.
For example: any healthcare professionals involved in my care, Samaritans, crisis text or phone line - list names and numbers.
For example: give my medication / tablets to a friend for safe keeping, remove things I might use to harm myself from my home.
For example: photo of a special person / photo of yourself as a little child, photo of your pet, photo of your safe place you may have drawn or imagined during creative counselling, breathing exercise, remind myself my intense feelings won't last. (also click here to look at suggested grounding techniques you could try).
Have this information either on your phone or written or typed out next to your phone at home ready to be used when you need it.
For more information on Safety Plan please visit http://stayingsafe.net from suicidal thoughts - 4 mental health ltd where you can find additional advice on how to develop your safety plan.
Mental Health and Suicide Support:
Samaritans
Telephone Number 116 123
operates a 24-hour service available everyday of the year. If you prefer to write down how you are feeling, or if you are worried about being overheard on the phone, you can email Samaritans at
jo@samaritans.org
Mental Health Helpline for Wales
Provides a Wales-wide 24/7 mental health multi-channel contact service for all ages. Call 111 and select option 2.
Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM)
Telephone Number 0800 585858
5pm to Midnight every day
Childline
Telephone Number 0800 1111
Runs a helpline for children and young people under 19 in the UK. Calls are free and the number won't show up on your phone bill.
PAPYRUS
Telephone Number 0800 068 4141 - 9am to Midnight
Text 07860 039967
Email pat@papyrus.uk.org
Is an organisation supporting teenagers and young adults under 35 who are feeling suicidal.
Mind Cymru
Telephone Number 02920 395 123
Is a charity providing advice and support to empower anyone experiencing a mental health problem. They campaign to improve services, raise awareness and promote understanding.
Shout Crisis Text Line
Text SHOUT to 85258 - For everyone
Young Minds Crisis Messenger
Text YM to 85258 - For people under 19.
SOS Silence of Suicide
Telephone Number 0300 1020 505 - 4pm to Midnight everyday
Email: support@sossilenceofsuicide.org
Bullying UK
is a website for both children and adults affected by bullying.
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